How to Get Your Ex Back - The Secret To Getting Your Ex to Return Your Call

Are there any 'magic' words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls?

It may sound hard to believe, but there ARE words that you can use that will nearly 'cast a spell' and make your ex feel almost compelled to return your call.

Pretty Cool huh?...

I am going to share this with you because this is one of the most common questions people have that are trying hard to mend their relationship.

So I am going to answer..."How do I get my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?"


BUT...

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WARNING!
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If you use this technique alone, without an 'overall' plan or strategy...you may in fact damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call at all.

In the Magic Of Making Up, I lay out a complete strategy.

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What NOT to Say!
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Before we get into the actual words that you will use, let's go over which message almost NEVER works.

or even worse...Puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position.

These usually fall into 1 of 2 categories:

The PLEAD - Where the message sounds like "John, please, please call me. This is the third time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."

or the EMERGENCY - "Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this."

Now, I think you can plainly see what is wrong with both of those approaches?

So ... no need to go on and on...

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How To Leverage Curiosity & Self Interest
To Your Advantage
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Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are:

*Curiosity &
*Self Interest

And here's the BIG SECRET! (listen closely):

When you combine each of these two forces, you have a recipe that WILL absolutely work 'magic'.

So...

Let's look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY SINGLE TIME.

In a friendly tone, say this:

"Hi John. It's Cindy. I wanted to let you know that I sincerely appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I'd like to thank you in person."

Can you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest?

John will NOT be able to resist! He'll be thinking "What did I do?" - "What does she appreciate?". Also, he feels good because it was a positive message.

Now...

IMPORTANT: Before you call you need to put some thought into the "Set Up"...which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate.

It can be any small thing...but it needs to be plausible and believable.

But more importantly...

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The 2nd WARNING!
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Please prepare an underlying strategy like I lay out in the Magic Of Making Up System BEFORE you call.

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If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back it is possible that you can do more DAMAGE than good if the situation is not handled correctly.

Okay?

What I am saying is...

Your actions before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than actually getting your ex to return your call.

Make sense?

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